My woman, my women, my woman
My women are nice and sweet, my women are very tender and cuddly, my women are sincere and honest, my women are beautiful and lovely, my women are big and tall, my women are mine, and ain't no one taking them from me.
This post is not about the women I know as friends or lovers, past or present, but rather on something else. It is about what women look for in men. I am not interested in knowing what you women look for in prince charming, but in real life men, who make you interested. You are not allowed to mention money or looks as answers.
Ladies, start commenting, keep them short, mabee qesat 7ayatkom.
This post is not about the women I know as friends or lovers, past or present, but rather on something else. It is about what women look for in men. I am not interested in knowing what you women look for in prince charming, but in real life men, who make you interested. You are not allowed to mention money or looks as answers.
Ladies, start commenting, keep them short, mabee qesat 7ayatkom.
posted by Purgatory at 12:51 PM
57 Comments:
He must be an astronuat :P hehehe just kidding (but truely I wish that)
Anyhow, I took online test just to make it easy for u and here is the result:
"You're looking for a man who can be a pillar of strength and stability in your life. He's responsible, hardworking and successful in his career. You can definitely count on him to do what he says and say what he means. He'll talk openly with you about who he is and what's important to him in life. You'll be impressed by how he can see the "big picture" and have a vision of what he wants to accomplish, while still having a practical and down-to-earth style. Although you'll always have lots to talk about, it'll probably take time to get past his reserved demeanor and get to know him emotionally."
and yeah he must be good listener ;)
Maryam, ok, but that does not answer the question for the common joe in the street you see and want to know more about, but I know you like astronauts, and not many walk in these streets :)
Ok, he must be funny, cheerful, good listener, logical, strong personality, easy going, open minded, hold tradition values, optimistic, …
Is that what u want to know?
Maryam, ok, that is much better.
* educated
* dependent
* stong personality
* honest
* simple, straight mo Looty!!
* not shy to express his feelings
* open minded
* takes life seriouslly ( mo kl shi 6aaf)
* smiles
* mo d3la "grupmy" at least has a 50% sence of humor, and knows when to use that sence :}
* values small from the heart things
* has a good mentality & not drifted too much in one side, he has to be logical too
* hard working
* appreciates hard things done
this is all i can think for now :}, more might come & sorry its not as short as u asked.
Q8CG, yes it is longer than I expected, but it gives another perspective of what you look for. I will wait for more comments before providing a summary and comment on your comments.
How do you come with the 50 %? did you do a statistical analysis for men :P
Cant help not to get statistics in it :} cant take %'s off my mind !.. effected by the 5yrs i spent studying it.
Q8CG, poor woman, must have been terrible :) five years of numbers and tables.
I look for:
-Kind
-Sweet
-Passionate about ME!
-Taller than me :P
-Understanding and shares SOME interests of mine
-SEXY and THOUGHTFUL in dealing with me
-HIGHLY forgiving me because I tend to make alot of mistakes
-An opposite of me, I'm a technical freak of some sort, I'd like a techie freak but nah talking techie stuff all the time isn't that fun
-He has to be HOT
-He has to be an actual born HE! and not one transformed or one who had experiences inside his own gender community..
That's all I can think of right now ;r
Jackie, long list like Q8CG, ma tesmoo3n elkalam :) anyways, are you sure this list is realistic? I mean, do you find guys with these qualities?
Yes this list is very realistic.. hehe :P and I chose to keep the part about the findings quiet :P
I only ask for one simple thing:
He has to accept me the way I am.
Shosho,
that is my kind of answer.
Wasma, my brother is one, want him?
he should be an:
adventurer,
artist,
academic, or
activist
or any combination thereof! ;)
I'm no sure what to look for in a man, but I'd definitely avoid a guy who doesn't appreciate music and rhythm.
There goes my comment, Purg. :)
wanderer , thanks for your answer, but how did you find my blog :)?
Cici, its not for me, its a general question :)
Shurouq, thanks for commenting :) hope you do it more and more.
YBR, Why did you decide to boycot blogs?
Wasma, Wasma, Wasma... You did not mention that before :) you only asked for a true architect.
We should attract each other physically. (ya3ny ya3jibny shakla mo lazim WOW bas lazim ya3jibny)
We should challenge each other mentally. (ya3ny thaky bas mo bas thaky good grades because everyone can memorize a book, thaky bas he can think for himself, aby a'7ith o a36y ma3a)
We should agree with each other spiritually. (ya3ny muslim bas mo OVER, illy noo3a no english music o madry shino)
I want to be treated with mutual love, and respect. From him, I want companionship, and understanding.
Oh oh oh and he has to have a biiiiiiiiiiig heart (ya3ny noo3a yishoof a poor guy in the street 3ady yigi6 3alay 5KD) bill a7ra mo ji39 haha
A woman can change everything in a man except ill ji39, itha ba'7eel, it'll never change. So that's the most important thing I guess, having a big heart (ya3ny 6ayib mo ya3ny boglayb).
He can look at other girls (ba3ad shasawy) as long as he doesn't touch or comment on them. See? I'm being reasonable and realistic.
DG, thanks for your contribution, too much stuff to ask for in one person :)
Well shosho certainlly got it right :) accept me the way i am .. about the long list & the writen obove as an addition to it, I would be very lucky to get a man with 70% of the stated by me :} he would b Mr. perfect & any % less is acceptable as long as its above 30%.
GF, perfect fit.
Q8CG, ok, sounds good to me, I need to do my own calculations to see if your numbers fit.
Purg - you are right. If he has a big heart then he's prolly not attractive. If he's attractive then he's prolly not smart. If he's smart then he's prolly not religious. I guess I was asking for too much :(
DG, true, interesting that you want a muslim :)
well I hope you check my blog, it is supposed to provide a sober alternative :)
*sarcasm* An intolerant muslim ... how rare *sarcasm*
As for you Purg, yes I am a muslim, good or bad, deep down I still am and always will be one. Yes, I don't think consuming alcohol is a sin but more on that in an upcoming post of mine so stay tuned! I'm assuming that's what you implied by "interesting".
DG yes :)
cici, ok :)
CiCi - When communicating with people like Yellow Brick Road, you have to dumb down everything. Fun isn't an option.
DG, you do not like YBR?
Purg - We are all mature adults here... well ok mostly all of us but anyways Me? I have my views & beliefs (be they religious or otherwise) but I don't go dissin' everyone whose against them. I think of myself as a tolerant person.
When someone has a problem with me or my beliefs I'd rather they come out and say it in an intelligent yet non-offending manner, rather than go around behind my back and talk about me to other people without even confronting me or at least giving me a clue, a comment or whatever.
Take GiGi for example. She didn't agree with me on something, instead of going around and talking to other people about me or cussing me out or whatever, she made an intelligent unoffensive post to which I could reply and explain myself if I felt the need to, which I did. We were both mature about it, and I really respect Gigi for that.
Now YBR on the otherhand thinks it's funny to beat around the bush and insinuate things. Not only is that cowardly, but offensive as well. Hope that answers your question purg.
DG, I do not think YBR meant you specifically, but then again I do not know the history between you two.
My point exactly. Instead of coming right out and saying it, YBR opted for beating around the bush, so you can't ever be too sure who YBR meant.
Yellow Brick Road - Go back to Al-Qaeda lolololol :)
PEACE
Talk about coincidence! PURG I was talking about the "Yellow Brick Road" in the classic "Wizard of Oz" movie, y'know with Judy Garland :)
In a real man I look for strength.
Gigi, vaguely
YBR and DG, just be friends :)
Gigi, you want a body lifter ya3ni?
chocolates, another long list :) Hope you find him
No purg. I said I was a tolerant person but I never said I was nice.
Ashkara a7ad yi'3ali6 3alay, o yiqalid illy ana katba on my sites and passes it off as their own (plagiarism) o ba3dayn ana agool let's be friends?
hmm she does not have a site DG?
I didn't say her site. I said MY site, and passes it off as her own in her comments. Check GiGi's post on alcohol, and you'll see what I mean.
Anyways regardless of what Grandma Funk thinks, I sugges you go take a fizzy vitamin c pill/drink thing :)
DG :) as you see my concentration is not at its best.
You are the first male who commented on this blog :)
I cannot answer your question of course, the ladies are in charge, they have listed their wishes. Maybe one of them would reply.
Purg, what on earth would make you think that I would be interested in an undertaker?
Gigi, facetiously
GiGi, you wanted a strong man, I did not say undertaker, unless you like wrestlers.
Shady check this link for a loooong post (and comments) about marriage.
http://www.kuwaitblogs.com/users/bozwayed/
Sorry Purg but I'd already written it down on another blog asking the same question. Hope you don't mind I posted a link.
DG, thanks for the info.
A reason for the desire for a life partner:
So that even as the years drift by, you have someone who will always see you as the young girl he married.
Gigi, romantically
Or:
You'll still have someone who will have sex with you when you're at the age of 60.
Gigi, crudely
:) Gigi, why shock the guy, just putting that image in his head :) although sex at 60 is not that bad, if one's body works.
Purg, I was poking fun at the fact that you said "body LIFTER"...
Gigi, jokingly
P.S. for the record: No, I didn't mean physically, and I think those buffed-up body-builder types are a MAJOR TURN-OFF.
GiGi, ok, I will believe you :)
Shady, feel free to reply or comment on any post. The people commenting here also have their own blogs, so you can also find out more about how they think through their blogs.
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